
1、溝通是關鍵
首(shou)先(xian),你(ni)需(xu)要(yao)與(yu)你(ni)的(de)老(lao)公(gong)坦(tan)誠(cheng)地(di)溝(gou)通(tong)。讓(rang)他(ta)知(zhi)道(dao)你(ni)願(yuan)意(yi)原(yuan)諒(liang)他(ta)的(de)錯(cuo)誤(wu),並(bing)嚐(chang)試(shi)重(zhong)新(xin)建(jian)立(li)信(xin)任(ren)。你(ni)可(ke)以(yi)向(xiang)他(ta)表(biao)達(da)你(ni)的(de)感(gan)受(shou),讓(rang)他(ta)知(zhi)道(dao)你(ni)對(dui)他(ta)還(hai)有(you)感(gan)情(qing)。同(tong)時(shi),也(ye)要(yao)讓(rang)他(ta)知(zhi)道(dao)你(ni)們(men)之(zhi)間(jian)的(de)婚(hun)姻(yin)出(chu)現(xian)了(le)問(wen)題(ti),需(xu)要(yao)一(yi)起(qi)努(nu)力(li)解(jie)決(jue)。
2、重新建立信任
在zai老lao公gong回hui歸gui家jia庭ting後hou,你ni需xu要yao重zhong新xin建jian立li信xin任ren。這zhe需xu要yao你ni和he他ta一yi起qi努nu力li。你ni可ke以yi讓rang他ta參can與yu一yi些xie家jia庭ting活huo動dong,讓rang他ta感gan受shou到dao家jia庭ting的de溫wen暖nuan和he重zhong要yao性xing。同tong時shi,也ye要yao讓rang他ta知zhi道dao他ta的de行xing為wei對dui你ni造zao成cheng了le很hen大da的de傷shang害hai,需xu要yao他ta做zuo出chu更geng多duo的de努nu力li來lai彌mi補bu。
3、找到問題的根源
yaoxiangjiejuezhegewenti,nixuyaozhaodaowentidegenyuan。nikeyihenidelaogongyiqihuiguguoqu,zhaochuhunyinzhongchuxianwentideyuanyin。yexushiyinweinimenzhijiandegoutongbuchang,huozheshiyinweinimenzhijiandejiazhiguanbutong。zhaodaowentidegenyuanhou,nimenkeyiyiqinulijiejuezhexiewenti。
4、給予時間和空間
zaizhongxinjianlixinrenhejiejuewentideguochengzhong,nixuyaogeiyunidelaogongshijianhekongjian。zhekeyibangzhutasikaozijidexingwei,bingyishidaozijidecuowu。tongshi,yekeyirangniyouzugoudeshijianlaipingfuqingxu,zhongxinshenshizheduanhunyin。


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